~Or the tale of the perfectionist.
It took me a long time to figure out what a true perfectionist is. It is not someone who is perfect, but someone who wants things the way they want it when they want it.
This Christmas I have done everything. The buying, the wrapping, the cleaning, the planning, the cooking, the toting... all of it. My husband has done very little. As I was bitching at him about it, he was saying that he liked to wrap, he could have wrapped. Of course the wrapping is done now, so whatever. When I stopped to think about it, I didn't and don't ask for his help for a reason. He doesn't do it right. LOL If I asked him to wrap, he would ask me for the paper and the tape and the scissors and the gifts...who gets what...where are the labels.... Do you see the direction I am heading. Asking him to do it takes 10 times longer than doing it myself.
I do wish that if I have to do it all he would just let me grouse about it and not get all hurt and stuff. geesh
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